My decade long struggle with Infertility, through Denial, Depression, Tears and Anger, to my ultimate Triumph......
Friday, February 14, 2014
INFERTILITY FACTS, NEWS AND VIEWS - Endometriosis: there could be better treatment and management.....
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
“Laparoscopic Excision Surgery For Endometriosis Frees Patients From Chronic Pain And Complications.”
Women who are diagnosed with Endometriosis, sadly deals with a lot of pelvic pain and discomfort caused by gastrointestinal and urinary tract conditions. I totally understand this, because my Polycystic condition, causes similar discomfort as well.A Laparoscopic Excision surgery eliminates this pain and discomfort, according to an article in Medical News Today.
The article also advise that women who suspect they might have endometriosis, get an accurate diagnosis sooner than later, so that they can be accurately treated and in so doing, minimize the chance of infertility, when they are ready to have children.
For more on this subject, please visit the link below.
http://www.medicalnewstoday.com/articles/236843.php
From the article:
“Keynote speaker and women's health advocate Padma Lakshmi, an international supermodel and TV show host, who co-founded the Endometriosis Foundation of America to encourage research to help other women to avoid her ordeal, declares: "Endometriosis is one of the most treatable, but least treated of women's health problems. Like me, many women suffer debilitating pain and other symptoms for as long as a decade before receiving an accurate diagnosis and proper treatment.
Many women suffer silently or use painkillers, sometimes for years. Because pelvic pain can have many different causes, including appendicitis, bowel obstruction, ovarian cysts, pelvic inflammatory disease, diverticulitis, ectopic pregnancy, fibroids, IBS and many others, correct treatment can often be delayed further, as endometriosis is sometimes not immediately diagnosed.
For example, in women with endometriosis on the intestines, symptoms may prompt a physician to suggest GI tests, which will not reveal the true problem.
Lakshmi continues saying: "If a woman wants to have children, it's critical to get an accurate diagnosis and treatment as soon as possible. Endometriosis is one of the top three causes of infertility. Many women are delaying childbearing into their 30s and even 40s these days, but if you have had untreated endometriosis for many years, it may be too late. And that is a real tragedy."
The currently most effective treatment is laparoscopic excision surgery as alternative medical therapies for endometriosis are extremely limited.”
Tuesday, August 2, 2011
PASS THAT SUNSCREEN PLEASE!!!!!!
Monday, June 6, 2011
INFERTILITY AND YOUR MARRIAGE
Men, in all fairness I know this is also a difficult time for you, because it is indeed hard to keep up with the roller coaster of emotions that you wife will subject you to. Let's face it, we are not given a handbook for any struggles that life throws our way, but you still can offer support to your wife without having all the answers. You can simply just be there to wipe her tears and to hold her. My husband did not do much by way of physically supporting and comforting me during my struggles with infertility, and I know now, that this is because he did not know how. The amazing thing however, was that in his silence, he was still there and I felt his presence, enough to assure me that we were indeed, in this thing together and as a result of this, our marriage benefited by becoming richer and stronger and when our prize for enduring this difficult period came (our son), we were able to celebrate, with confidence, that God had truly favoured us.
http://onereachinganother.blogspot.com/2011/03/what-he-can-expect-when-she-is-not.html
Friday, May 14, 2010
ENDOMETRIOSIS AND TRYING TO CONCEIVE
See video clip of interview at:-
Endometriosis affects one in ten women and is one of the leading causes of infertility. It’s symptoms include:-
- Irregular, heavy and periods
- Backache
- Pelvic Pain
- Infertility
- Using birth control pills or the fertility drug, Clomiphene Citrate (Clomid) to regulate your periods.
- Laparoscopy to remove tissues which causes the condition.
Friday, March 26, 2010
“IF AT FIRST YOU DON’T CONCEIVE”
It is with great pleasure that I introduce the book, If at First You Don't Conceive: A Complete Guide to Infertility from One of the Nation's Leading Clinics
This book covers areas such as:-
- The basics of what you should know - Understanding the Fertility Fight.
- The most common fertility challenges – Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), Endometriosis and tubal and uterine challenges, among others.
- The most common solutions – The donor sperm option, and egg donor option and Invitro –Fertilization, etc.
- Preserving mind and Spirit – A look at the emotional challenges of infertility.
Wednesday, March 17, 2010
"IF AT FIRST YOU DON'T CONCEIVE"
Children born to a young man are like sharp arrows in a warrior’s hand
Psalm 127: 3 & 4
It is with great pleasure that I introduce the book, IF AT FIRST YOU DON’T CONCEIVE, a complete guide to infertility from one of the nation’s leading clinics. Authored by Dr. William Schoolcraft, MD, HCLD, Director of the Colorado Center for Reproductive Medicine.
This book covers areas such as:
- The basics of what you should know - Understanding the Fertility Fight.
- The most common fertility challenges – Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS), Endometriosis and tubal and uterine challenges, among others.
- The most common solutions – The donor sperm option, and egg donor option and Invitro –Fertilization, etc.
- Preserving mind and Spirit – A look at the emotional challenges of infertility.
I highly recommend this book for persons currently involved in the fertility fight and can be a great gift for anyone you know also engaged in this fight.
Get it at, Amazon.com, Barnes & Noble and Borders.
Saturday, June 6, 2009
Yes, secondary infertility does hurt too
Children born to a young man are like sharp arrows in a warrior’s hand.”
Psalm 127: 3 & 4

One of my fellow bloggers did a recent post entitled, "secondary infertility does hurt as well," and I feel compelled to share her post with my readers, to stress the fact that persons suffering from secondary infertility do hurt too.
Secondary infertility is when a woman, after carrying a pregnancy to term fails to carry a subsequent one to term. This can be due to various factors, endometriosis, polycystic ovarian syndrome and age among others.
The thing is, many women suffering from secondary infertility get pushed aside because they often have feelings of guilt that they are yearning for more children when some are still struggling to have even one and quite rightly so, because women suffering from primary infertility (the inability to become pregnant at all) do resent these women, thinking that they are selfish to want more children, when they are still struggling to have one. It is selfish to think that anyone should settle for just one child and many women know what their ideal family should look like and does not stop trying for children until they have reached this target. Primary infertiles do know this I am sure but when you are struggling with infertility, as per my experience, you do behave irrationally at times.
I know of a few persons who are suffering with secondary infertility and it does hurt just as much as primary infertility sufferers. I myself is suffering in this regard seeing that I carried my son to term two years ago and still had a miscarriage a few months ago.
With that said, please follow the link to see my fellow blogger’s post and article on this subject and see also the comments of other women suffering from secondary infertility.
http://infertility-fertility.blogspot.com/2009/06/secondary-infertility-hurts-too.html
Until next time
Keep clinging to hope
Friday, April 24, 2009
Endometriosis does not have to be an infertility sentence
Children born to a young man are like sharp arrows in a warrior’s hand.”
Psalm 127: 3 & 4
JUST A LITTLE SOMETHING TO LIFT YOUR SPIRITS IF YOU HAVE BEEN DIAGNOSED WITH ENDOMETRIOSIS AND IS FEELING PARTICULARLY HOPELESS ABOUT CONCEIVING AT THIS TIME.
Chances are you already know this, but I still feel compelled to remind you.
If you have been diagnosed with endometriosis, there is good news. Endometriosis does not have to be an infertility sentence. Many women with a minimal to mild case of endometriosis do go on to having normal healthy pregnancies. Some even without difficulty I might add. Those with a more severe case still end up having children but with some degree of difficulty.
I know of many women with endometriosis who now have their normal healthy children and others who are currently pregnant and their pregnancies are progressing well.
Please click on the link below to continue reading about Endometriosis and infertility and the treatment options available.
http://www.endometriosis.org/infertility.html
Good luck
Until next time
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Monday, April 20, 2009
Why the Epidemic????????
Children born to a young man are like sharp arrows in a warrior’s hand.”
Psalm 127: 3 & 4

Just the other day I was talking to a friend about my blog and she was saying that so many of her female friends are diagnosed with reproductive problems, mostly Uterine Fibroids, Endometriosis and Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome (PCOS). She further went on to say that she and her mother were having a conversation on the same subject and her mother was saying that in her days you did not hear about so many of these conditions in women. Some women are even diagnosed with more than one of the conditions, which makes conceiving even more difficult.
To make matters worse, these conditions are not just restricted to women of childbearing age who are considering having a family, young girls are also affected. My PCOS started affecting me at age 19 but I was diagnosed way in my twenties and just last week a friend of mine was telling me that she knows of two girls about age 16, who were diagnosed with ovarian cysts.
These days it is like every other woman that I come across has one of the various reproductive disorders, or knows someone who do.
My question then is, why the epidemic? Is it environmental factors (global warming), our water, our food, or is it the stresses of life. Many medical conditions, including infertility, I learn, are caused by stress and so there is also a rise in various cases of cancer, heart disease etc. There are also diseases now that I have not even heard of before.
Many of the reproductive diseases, I found out in my research, the causes are not known exactly. PCOS is said to be hereditary even though there are various other factors that could contribute to it. Bottom line is, you cannot do anything to prevent them and so, if you are to be a victim, when you are diagnosed, you have to act quickly to treat these conditions so that your dream of having a family can be realized.
After you have had your family, it is still necessary to continue with proper management of these diseases so that further serious conditions do not develop.
ALL THE BEST
Until next time.