Can you believe the ‘Octopulet Mom’??????

I was not going to say anything about this issue as I think it has now become redundant, but everyday something new comes up and so it continues to be in the news. You must by now have heard of the ‘Octopulet Mom,’ she already has six children via Invitro-Fertilization and went back for more, got eight and so now she has fourteen, while some women are hoping that their IVF would just work, even once.

My heart goes out to women who cannot have children, those who are frustratingly trying and those who want just one more so that their only one can have company to grow up with. These women I am quite sure are financially able to take care of children, mind you maybe not fourteen, but the amount that they desire to have, and are robbed of this opportunity. While women, like Nadya are allowed to have so many and is in no way able to take care of them. I understand that her doctor is under fire for implanting so many embryos, as it is illegal altogether or illegal in some states.

You cannot help but wonder why good things happen to bad people. I term Nadya bad people because she has made some bad decisions and does not seem to have any remorse, as she desperately tries to rationalize the reason for her actions, which she said is because she is an only child, she feels she must have a lot of children. By all means have them, but if you can take care of them. This woman is a single mom, has no job and will soon have no place to live because she is behind on her mortgage.

I heard that she has been offered a roll in a pornographic movie so if she decide to accept it then I guess that is her way of seeking to take care of her children, since she has refused help that was offered to her. The problem with that though is that it will certainly further mess us these children when they learn that their mom is involved in things of that nature.

I once had very low tolerance for some of the shows on television featuring families with a lot of children. The difference with these though, are that they actually get compensation for these shows and so they are able to live comfortably. John and Kate Plus 8 I am alright with, as this couple previously had twins and went back for just one more and got six. Before I had my son, I could not watch these shows as they would just make me more sad, angry and depressed. Now I am able to watch some of them and I marvel at how they keep things together.

I want to say to my readers who are childless because of infertility, do not let women like Nadya cause you to lose focus. Pray for her, she sure needs it and pray that people’s heart will open up to these children and give them the help they need and the Mom will see it necessary to accept this help.

I continue to pray for you in your efforts to have a family. Catch up with you next post.

Uterine Fibroids and Fertility

It breaks my heart when persons who are diagnosed with uterine fibroids do surgery with hopes of being able to have children afterwards and then they are faced with the issue of scar tissue, resulting from the surgery, which now makes having children even more difficult or impossible.

Sometime ago I was hearing of drugs that could be taken to shrink fibroids but people are still doing sugery for fibroids. Upon research, I came across a promotion, claiming to have a potent systemic enzyme formula to dissolve fibrin, the material of all fibroids and scar tissue, and a drug, Neprinol claiming to be able to shrink fibroids.
For information on the potent formula, please check the following link:-
http://shrinkfibroidsfast.smmsite.com/compose_customer_web_site.php?smmDomain=ShrinkFibroidsFast.smmsite.com&smmAdID=16412

The drug Neprinol – from the article:-
“The enzymes in Neprinol work swiftly to break apart fibroids, improve circulation, stimulate the immune system, and reduce inflammation. Neprinol's two foremost ingredients (Serrapeptase and Nattokinase) help remove fibroids by dissolving the fibrous part of the fibroid tumor. Clinical studies have shown that Serrapeptase and Nattokinase work fast and effectively to dissolve fibrin safely with no adverse side effects. Neprinol is extremely effective at removing toxins from the bloodstream, and then helping to pass the emulsified fibrous tissue.”
Please visit site for more information:-
http://www.enzymus.com/fibroids?OVRAW=fibroids%20and%20scar%20tissue&OVKEY=fibroids&OVMTC=advanced&OVADID=39705793011&OVKWID=10583462511
I am not sure how available worldwide the drug Neprinol is, but it does not hurt to check it out. I checked out everything even if in the end it did not help me at all. I was satisfied enough knowing that the opportunity did not pass me by. These options would be good for persons with fibroids who are contemplating surgery, seeing that the possibility of scar tissue is high, it would be great to have the option of using drugs to dissolve the fibroids instead.

The formula claiming to dissolve fibrin, the material of all fibroids and scar tissue caught my attention because this could certainly help all those dealing with the issue of scar tissue at the moment. Since it makes no sense to do surgery to remove scar tissue as another scar would only be formed, then dissolving the scar tissue itself would definitely be the best option.

My Infertility Story – C O N C L U S I O N

You have now read my story and normally I would have said, I hope you are encouraged, but I know you have in fact been encouraged, as I have heard from some you.

Part of the reason why I decided to put my story out via blogging was because I knew I would be able to offer encouragement to those who are struggling with infertility in a way that few probably can, having struggled for over a decade (twelve years exactly) and in such an incredibly difficult way. I am still to hear of someone who has struggled for as long as we did. I have heard of persons struggling for up to six years but none over a decade so far. I remember my mother-in-law was offering encouragement to a co-worker of hers who has been struggling with infertility. She told her how long it took us to finally have our baby, and the person responded, "am I to sit around and wait that long?" If someone told us that we would have had to sit around for that long, I would have said the same thing to them because it is really a difficult thing to have to do.

We who have struggled and those who are currently struggling with infertility are connected in a way that few could ever understand, and even though we maybe worlds apart, it is comforting to know that with the use of technology, we can read each other stories and find comfort in knowing that we are not alone, we struggle in the same way. We might not be connected by blood, but we are certainly connected in tears, in yearning, in shattered dreams and in hope that one day infertility will just be something we once struggled with.

Those of you who have read my story and did not know much about infertility and how it affects us who struggle with it, I am sure now has a clearer picture and can empathize with those you know who are currently on this journey. During my time of struggle I was judged by some and sadly these persons do have children and therefore could not possibly understand the pain associated with struggling with infertility. I remember one comment someone made, and every time I remember it, it breaks my heart all over again. The comment is, I have walked off my job because of trying to have a child and is stressing out my husband. Clearly this person does not understand how this thing can consume you to the point where you are not able to function normally. She also knows nothing about my struggles and I am hoping that she will access my story so that she can understand and feel sorry that she ever judged me in that way.

Finally, I hate to sound like a scratch record, but that is what my blog is set up to do, to encourage and give hope to you struggling with infertility. Therefore, I want to say, do not give up hope. Do everything in your power to beat this. It is said that when you have done your best, angels in heaven cannot do more, so fight on and remember, as I have said before, if you have exhausted all your other options, then adoption can be considered. Adoption can even be considered if you have not yet exhausted all your options and can afford to. Persons have done this and still go on to having their biological child, as the body now becomes more relaxed as that yearning ceases for the time being, therefore causing pregnancy to be achieved.

Thanks for taking time out to read my story and do join me as I continue to offer encouragement and hope and information geared at helping you with your struggle, through this blog.

DO REMEMBER, WE DID IT, SO YOU CAN DO IT TOO!!!!!!!!