LIGHT MOMENT FRIDAYS – Feature 7 - WHAT IS A GRANDPARENT

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All of us who struggle with infertility can attest to the fact that it robs us of our happiness. It robs us of our ability to truly laugh and this is why I have come up with this new feature on my blog, called ‘Light Moment Fridays.’ I love Fridays, and I guess it is because this is the beginning of a well awaited weekend. I love the casual laid back mood. This is why I have chosen Fridays for this, where I will post short jokes and funny videos. Our son is at the stage now where he says or does things which is so hilarious, so I will share some of those precious moments with you as well.

This is for you all, especially those of us  who struggle to be happy, amidst our hurts and pain.......DO 

ENJOY!!!!

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This is just the cutest!!!!!!!

WHAT  IS A GRANDPARENT?

 Taken from papers written by a class of 8-year-olds.

Grandparents are a lady and a man who have
no little children of their own.  They like other people's.

A grandfather is a man, & a grandmother is
a lady!

Grandparents don't have to do anything
except be there when we come to see them.

They are so old they shouldn't play hard
or run.

It is good if they drive us to the shops and give us money.

When they take us for walks, they slow
down past things like pretty leaves and
caterpillars.

They show us and talk to us about the
colours of the flowers and also why we
shouldn't step on 'cracks.'

They don't say, 'Hurry up.'

Usually grandmothers are fat but not too fat to tie your shoes.

They wear glasses and funny underwear.

They can take their teeth and gums out.

Grandparents don't have to be smart.

They have to answer questions like 'Why isn't God married?' and 'How come dogs chase cats?'

When they read to us, they don't skip. They don't mind if we ask for the same
story over again.

Everybody should try to have a grandmother, especially if you don't have
television because they are the only grownups who like to spend time with us.

They know we should have snack time before bed time, and they say prayers with us and kiss us even when we've acted bad.

A 6-yr. old was asked "Where does your Grandmother live?

"Oh", He said, "She lives at the airport, and when we want her, we just go get her. Then when were done having her visit, we take her back to the airport."

Grandpapa is the smartest man on earth!!! He teaches me good things, but I don't get to see him enough to get as smart as him......

It's funny when they bend over; you hear gas leaks, and they blame their dog.

D and Cs AND INFERTILITY

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During my struggles with infertility, I had one D&C (Dilation and Curettage) and I had fears that this could further add to my infertility issues. Fortunately, it did not. When I had my last miscarriage two years ago, I was so relieved  when my doctor opted that I allow my body to expel the pregnancy naturally, as this same fear was once again present.

Turns out my fear is justified as D&C’s can lead to infertility or if you are already suffering with infertility, could further compromise your chances to get pregnant, due to scarring in the womb following such surgery.

A fellow blogger is kind enough to do a post on this subject.  Why not check it out.

http://infertility-fertility.blogspot.com/2011/04/how-d-and-cs-may-leave-you-infertile.html

YES, MEN DO SUFFER FROM POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION AS WELL

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I really did not know that men suffer from postpartum depression, in almost the same way as women do. Sadly, this is not common knowledge, not even among health professionals and as a result, many men, are forced to suffer alone.

Below is a website (PostpartumMen) which explains exactly what postpartum depression in men is and offers more information on this subject along with much needed advice and encouragement to men suffering in this regard.

http://www.postpartummen.com/

From the site:

What Is Men’s Postpartum Depression or PPND?

“Remember seeing your baby for the first time? You were probably filled with pride and excitement. That’s what you always heard it was like having a child – pure joy. Baby bliss.

Then, reality sets in. Sleepless nights. A screaming infant needing nearly constant care. Fights with your partner. Going to work exhausted.

Then, over time, you’ve noticed things have gotten worse.

Now, you’ve lost your sense of humor, and there’s not much to look forward to. You’ve started getting more anxious or panicky. You’ve had trouble sleeping. And you’re miserable a lot of the time.

Or perhaps you’ve been irritable. You’re getting more stressed at work and getting angry with your wife. Maybe you’ve noticed you’re drinking more – or withdrawing from people.

These are all signs of men’s depression. You may think you should just “get over it” – and that you must be the only guy who can’t. But you’re not the only one.”